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How to Respond If Your Partner Doesn’t Like Their Engagement Ring
No one's a mind reader, and very few of us are taste readers! So, here's a guide on how to make getting the wrong ring right.
Getting engaged is an exciting moment in both your lives, but what happens if your partner doesn’t like the engagement ring you’ve chosen? While it might feel disappointing, remember that the engagement ring is a symbol of love and commitment, and your partner’s happiness is key. Plus, this happens more than you think. After all, style is ultimately very personal and they’re the ones who know their own taste better than anyone. Here are some steps to navigate the situation and find a solution that works for both of you.
Communication Is Key
The first step is to have an open and honest conversation with your partner. It’s important to approach the situation with understanding and not to feel upset or defensive. After all, your partner will be wearing the ring for a lifetime, so their feelings are valid. Listen to their concerns about the ring, whether it’s the style, metal, or design, and work together to find a resolution.
DID YOU KNOW?
David’s Bridal did a survey that found 57% of women in 2013 didn’t love their first ring so you’re not alone
Consider Their Preferences
Ask your partner what specifically they don’t like about the ring. Sometimes it’s just a small detail, like the gemstone or the band, that can be adjusted without replacing the entire ring. Understanding what elements they prefer can help you find a design that suits both their taste and the sentiment behind the ring. Maybe you went classic and chose a diamond, whilst they prefer coloured gemstones like sapphire or emerald.
An good tip from the AJC is consider their style and find the corresponding period. If their style is more bold, sleek and modern they might love the rings of the Art Deco era. Whilst someone who dresses more romantically and classically could prefer the Victorian or Edwardian styles. If they’re a real statement maker they might like the 1950s look. At the end of the day this is just another way to get to know your partner’s taste better.
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Remember Your Budget
While finding the perfect ring for your partner is important, it’s essential to stay mindful of your budget. Be transparent about your financial limits, and explore options that fit within the boundaries you originally set. This could include selecting a different ring with a similar cost, opting for a more budget-friendly design, or even choosing a complementary wedding band to enhance the engagement ring.
Exchange or Return Policies
Before purchasing, it’s a good idea to check the jeweller’s exchange or return policies. Many jewellers offer flexible options, allowing you to exchange or return the ring within a certain timeframe. This gives you peace of mind, knowing you can make changes if needed, without starting from scratch.
At The AJC our Returns & Exchanges policy is built with changes of taste in mind. We offer a 30 Day, Full Money-Back Guarantee on all purchases, and 60 days for exchanges/part exchanges.
Shop Together
If a new ring is the best solution, shopping together can take the pressure off finding the “perfect” ring. Since the proposal has already happened, you can enjoy the experience of selecting a ring together. This way, your partner can find something they truly love, and the process can become another exciting chapter in your engagement journey.
Why not visit us at our London showroom? Come together, get comfortable, and our team will take the time to help you choose the perfect ring as a unit. After all two heads are always better than one.
Focus on the Relationship
While the engagement ring is important, it’s just a symbol of your commitment. What truly matters is the relationship and the journey ahead. Keep perspective on the bigger picture and remember that your bond is what’s most important, not the ring.
Still Searching for the Perfect Ring?
If you’re still on the hunt for the right ring or need some inspiration, check out our selection of beautiful engagement rings. Our team of experts is always ready to help with any questions you might have, making the search for the perfect ring even easier.
Book your appointment now and comes see us, we love nothing better than helping people find their perfect (ring) match.
